What do I want out out of this relationship?
What’s important about a marriage certificate?
Can we accomplish what we want without it?
How well do we know each other?
What draws us together?
Do we have shared interests?
Do we share any dreams?
Who would object to our marriage?
Do we like each other’s families?
How many holidays will we be expected to spend with them?
What do we hope for the future?
How are the finances?
Do we want children together?
What about children from a prior marriage?